30 Eylül 2012 Pazar

Puer aeternus is Latin for eternal boy, used in mythology to designate a child-god who is forever young; psychologically it refers to an older man whose emotional life has remained at an adolescent level. The puer typically leads a provisional life, due to the fear of being caught in a situation from which it might not be possible to escape. He covets independence and freedom, chafes at boundaries and limits, and tends to find any restriction intolerable.
  1. The supposed psychological phenomenon of immaturity among some men and women, who, like the fictional character, remain childish and fail to assume appropriate adult social roles and responsibilities. 

Peter Pan syndrome (uncountable)
Peter Pan syndrome is a pop-psychology term used to describe an adult (usually male) who is socially immature. The term is used informally by both laypeople and some psychology professionals in popular psychology. It is not listed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, and is not recognized by the American Psychiatric Association as a specific mental disorder.
Dr. Dan Kiley popularized the Peter Pan syndrome in his 1983 book, The Peter Pan Syndrome: Men Who Have Never Grown Up; his next book, The Wendy Dilemma (1984), advises women romantically involved with "Peter Pans" how to improve their relationships. Patricia Craine's book, Wendy's Club: ...for women hooked on "Peter Pans" and how to break the addiction (2006), addresses the same target audience as Kiley's 1984 book.

In fact, I have never been a roommate kind of guy. I've always been okay having a sad party on my own.

english strikes back

remember the feeling you had when you were a kid who's down with the flu or something and your mom used to cook anything you ask for just to make you feel less terrible about yourself. that's what would cheer me up right at this moment. not the smoky taste i''m gonna have from the cigarette im just about the lit up.
I wish I had been through all those sad and gloomy moments of breaking up with my exes. They've always been more like; see you later, dont let the door hit you. not good. not very romantic.

19 Eylül 2012 Çarşamba

Hayatınızda öyle bir noktaya geliyorsunuz ki, artık  herkesin yaptığı gibi, ne kadar mutlu, eglenceli, kahkahalı, harika hayatlar yaşadığınızı, ne kadar güzel yemekler yiyip, ne harika yerler gördüğünüzü insanların  gözüne sokmak için yaşamadığınızı fark ediyorusunuz, ya da fark edeceksiniz. O zaman internet denen yerde yapacak hiç bir şey olmadığını anladığınız an olacak.